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The Perils of Buying Your Wife a Christmas Gift

by Larry E. Quicksall

Men, this tip is for you. While Christmas is only a few short weeks away, I can reasonably expect that most of you have not finished or have not even started Christmas shopping for your wife. To help you at this time I thought I would share a few thoughts on what NOT to get your wife for Christmas.

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Don’t get her a gift that has an electrical cord attached to it. While most men appreciate power tools as big-boy-toys, most women do not view them with the same fondness.

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Don’t go into Wal-Mart at the last minute and buy her something off the impulse shelves in the main isles. Unless she has dropped you a strong hint to get her something from those shelves, she has likely passed by them several times and said small prayers that she wouldn’t receive anything from them.

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Don’t buy her something from your favorite sport in hopes that she will then be more likely to join you in that sporting activity. This logic generally only works for other men.

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Don’t buy her weigh-reduction equipment. If she wants it, get it for her at another time. Just don’t “hit her below the belt” on Christmas.

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Don’t buy her a bunch of stuff she doesn’t want in hopes that it will make up for not finding what she really wants.

So, what do you get her? Well, I don’t know your wife, but her are a few tips.

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Take the time to get her something that she really wants.

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Don’t wait until the last minute.

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If you don’t have a clue, ask her for ideas or a list of things she would like (I do this one).

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If she gives you a list, keep it from year to year for help with birthdays and anniversaries.

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When all else fails, give her a weekend get-away for just the two of you. If possible, plan the get-away within a month of Christmas, so it is remembered as a Christmas gift. Build in fun activities that she can enjoy with the man she loves. (12/05/1999)

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