As mid-January hits with its cold and uncomfortable weather, we find ourselves spending more and more time inside rather than outside. Rather than asking the question, "What am I going to watch on TV tonight?" ask yourself, "What can I do that will strengthen my marital relationship?" Hummm...., how about turning on the radio, making some flavored tea or hot chocolate with a leftover candy cane melting in it, and dreaming with your spouse about what you want to do this spring once the weather starts getting better? Or dreaming about a summer vacation? Or where you want your marriage to be in five years? 

Another TV alternative for married couples is to go to the library and borrow a book on cassette and listen to it over the course of one or two evenings. You can pick any type of book whether it be marital growth or simply fun fiction. Some books are turned into dramatic radio series similar to the old-time radio programs, and can be a lot of fun. So get out of the TV rut and take advantage of the weather that gives marriages the opportunity to grow. (01/16/2000)