Being appreciative sure goes a long way. This is especially true in marriage where we often take each other for granted. To help in this area, take a week and really pay attention to your spouse. Make a list of five things that you really appreciate in them as a person, such as traits in their personality or specific things that they do. Then, write these five things into a love letter and leave it for them to read later. The letter doesn't have to be "mushy," just sincere. Your spouse will appreciate your effort! (11/14/1999)